After catching up on "Love Story" and its imagining of how Carolyn Bessette pulled John F. Kennedy Jr. (quite effortlessly, by the way), it's clear her game may be something worth incorporating into your own dating life.
But how does one date like the perennial It girl? By practicing what dating expert Jaime Bronstein, LCSW, calls selective dating. "The key quality that Bessette exhibited was not dating to impress, but dating with standards," Bronstein says. "In an era where people would shrink themselves to be with powerful figures like JFK Jr., she did the opposite — dating him from a place of self-worth. She had her own life and career, and that was one of the reasons he was attracted to her."
Like Bessette, you may have to leave a president's son on read from time to time — and unfortunately that may include sending back really pretty floral arrangements to your office. |
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